There is no limit to the ways in which a person’s sexual life can be improved by the use of sex toys. In point of fact, some women cannot have an orgasm without the assistance of a vibrator. Even though first-time users of these products might find them intimidating, they can actually be very helpful tools for discovering new ways to get and give pleasure in the bedroom as well as for figuring out what sexually satisfies you.
Those who are already in committed relationships can benefit greatly from the addition of novelty, excitement, and passion into their intimate lives through the use of sex toys. And introducing them to your partner does not have to be a difficult or uncomfortable experience either.
Take some time to sit down with the person you share your life with and create a “Yes/No/Maybe” list. The use of these lists, which we cover in more detail in our book “Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex,” is a fantastic way to talk about the boundaries you set for yourself in the bedroom. The lists cover all ranges of sexual activity, from those appropriate for children to those suitable for adults only. You and your partner should each complete a list independently, indicating what it is that you both are interested in attempting. If you respond with “yes,” it indicates that you have a strong desire to carry it out; if you respond with “no,” it indicates that you cannot participate; and if you respond with “maybe,” it indicates that you are open to the possibility of participating. After that, compare your lists to determine what activities each of you is interested in doing. These lists can be used as a springboard for fruitful conversations about new ways to be intimate, while simultaneously making it clear what you are not willing to experiment with.
If you don’t have a partner, playing with sex toys can be a fun way to get to know your body and discover what you enjoy doing in the bedroom. In this way, the next time you have a sexual encounter, you will feel comfortable telling your partner how to please you, which will ultimately lead to more satisfying sexual experiences. The majority of people require instruction, despite the fact that movies make it appear as though good lovers are mind readers.
Toys can be found in a wide variety of forms, including shapes, sizes, colours, and even speeds. When you are trying to decide what kind of sex toy you want to experiment with, it is most important to think about how you want to use it. Will you be using it alone? How about a partner? — and what kind of stimulation do you prefer the most? Your clitoris will be stimulated by toys that promise external stimulation, while your G-spot will be stimulated by products designed for internal stimulation.
The following is a list of some of my top recommendations for products to use when starting out.
The We-Vibe Sync is a vibrator that can be worn during sex with your partner. It is Babeland’s best-selling toy for couples and has been for quite some time. It is a C-shaped toy that stimulates both the clitoris and the G-spot, and it has multiple settings so that you can control the amount of pressure to achieve the optimal level of pleasure for yourself. Those who are in relationships that are separated by a great distance would benefit from purchasing the toy. Because it is connected to an app, your partner will be able to operate the vibrator even when they are thousands of miles away. It’s a great way to keep in touch with people.
I would suggest the Crave Bullet to you if you are looking for a discreet vibe that is small enough to use while having sex with your partner. It’s very comfortable to hold and moves fluidly between different bodies. It doesn’t make much noise, but despite its diminutive dimensions, it packs a significant punch. In addition to this, it is available in a stunning finish of either 24k gold or stainless steel.
To provide you with external stimulation in a way that is both aesthetically pleasing and reasonably priced, the Heart vibrator is a toy that was designed specifically for use when you are by yourself. Up to ten different speeds can be selected from the available options. Its heart-shaped design complements the body well, and it has a lot of useful features.
The last must-have item for your nightstand, in my opinion? A personal lubricant and a massage candle are included. When it comes into contact with the skin, the warm oil that the candle transforms into as it burns down becomes an extremely luxurious sensation. Lube is one of those things that can elevate an average sexual experience to a fantastic one. Maintain a constant supply of it.