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How to Use a Vibrator: Everything You Need to Know

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On March 10, 2023

If you’ve never used a vibrator before, you might not know where to start. The good news is that it doesn’t have to be hard to learn how to use a vibrator. You just need to be willing to work at it and use these tips as a guide.

Learn about each other

More and more people are using sex toys to spice up their sex lives. Vibrators are one of the most popular toys on the market, and more than half of all women in have used one.

There are hundreds of different types of vibrators that come in many shapes, sizes, and with many different features. Let’s start by learning how a vibrator works.

Vibrators are handheld devices that can vibrate at different speeds by pressing a button. Some vibrators are powered by batteries, while others must be plugged in. When the vibrations are put on the area around or inside the vagina, they make the blood flow faster and make you feel more. Vibrators can also make orgasms happen faster or stronger.

Find out what features your vibrator has before you go shopping for it.

Can you adjust the speed or intensity of the vibrations?
How comfortable is the vibrator for you to hold in your hand for extended periods?
Are there different vibration sequences?
Is the vibrator’s texture or material pleasant to the touch?
Does the vibrator emit any sound or light when in use?
Is it possible to use it underwater?

If you’ve never used a vibrator before, you might want to choose one with different vibration settings so you can find the one that feels best to you. You can also look online for reviews of products or talk to salespeople about different brands or features.

Clean your vibrator

The first thing you should do after buying a vibrator is to clean it. Make sure it’s clean and free of any dirt, bacteria, or chemicals used to package it.
Depending on the electric parts, you might need to use a disinfecting wipe instead of soap and water to clean your vibrator.

Follow the instructions from the manufacturer on how to wash your vibrator, as some devices can’t be put in water. Depending on the electric parts, you might need to use a disinfecting wipe instead of soap and water to clean your vibrator.

Put yourself in the mood.

When you are ready to explore with your vibrator, you may find that it is beneficial to calm your anxiety by getting in the mood for sexual stimulation. You may do this by thinking about how the vibrator will make you feel. The following are some examples of common methods:

Taking a warm shower or bath
Massaging your body with oil or lotion
Dimming the lights or lighting candles
Playing sensual music
Touching yourself, using your fingers to stimulate sensitive areas on your body like your nipples, torso, or vulva
Masturbate without climaxing in an orgasm

As your arousal increases, you’ll probably feel more comfortable with the idea of using a vibrator.

Use lube

When you are ready to use your sex toy, add a tiny amount of lubricant to both the device and your genitals in order to lessen the amount of friction that will occur during use.

If your vibrator is also made of silicone, you should exercise extreme caution before using a lubricant that contains silicone, as doing so may cause some of the material to degrade.

Try different speeds and amounts of pressure.

If your vibrator can be set to different speeds, start with the slowest one. To change how sensitive your vibrator is, you can change how fast it moves or how hard it presses.

There are vibrators made for internal or penetrative stimulation and vibrators made for external stimulation. Each type needs to be tried out. For example, using a “rabbit” vibrator, which has parts that stimulate both inside and outside the body, will be different from using a “bullet” vibrator, which is mostly made for outside stimulation.

Use a mirror

Using a vibrator while looking in a mirror can be a sexually stimulating experience. Not only can it help you understand what’s going on in your body, but it may also make you want to get even more excited.

Use a vibrator on your whole body.

You don’t have to use a vibrator only on your genitalia. Try brushing your vibrator across your nipples, neck, butt, or feet, which are all erogenous areas.

Move slowly enough to feel the different sensations, and stop where it feels good.

Use a coupler with a vibrator.

Studies have found that couples who use vibrators are happier with their relationships than couples who don’t use them.

You can try holding a vibrator over your clitoris while your partner goes down on you or while you are having penetrative sex.

Studies have found that couples who use vibrators are happier with their relationships than couples who don’t use them.

If you and your partner are doing pre-play and want to build up excitement, you can take turns using a vibrator or your hands to stimulate each other. Play around with a vibrator to find the edge of orgasm before turning down the level of stimulation.

How to take care of your vibrator

No matter what kind of vibrator you have, you’ll want to take care of it well. Vibrators can be expensive, so you’ll want to do everything you can to make them last as long as possible.

Store your vibrator in a case, or keep it in a drawer or box with your other sex toys when it’s not in use.

When you use your vibrator, you should only put as much pressure on it as you need to. Don’t try to make the vibrator go in a direction or shape it wasn’t made for, because that could break it. If it runs on batteries, take them out after each use to help them last longer. If it needs to be plugged in, make sure to unplug it when you’re done using it or when it’s done charging.

When you’re not using it, keep your vibrator in a case or in a drawer or box with your other sex toys.

Safety tips

Using a vibrator is completely safe as long as you’re careful with how you use and store it. Follow these safety tips to make sure your vibrator doesn’t cause any unwanted side effects.

It’s crucial that you thoroughly wash your vibrator according to the manufacturer’s instructions before and after you use it. Otherwise, your sex toy could collect bacteria and even transmit sexually transmitted infections if you’re sharing it with your partner.
If you’re sharing a vibrator with your partner, put a new condom on the vibrator each time you share it to help prevent the spread of infection.
Inspect your vibrator before each use to make sure there aren’t any cracks or damage, which can increase the risk of injury or infection.
Never use a broken vibrator, and stop using it if it malfunctions.
Stop using your vibrator if it causes you pain or discomfort or if it has a lingering odor even after washing it.

Vibrators are a great way to get started with sex toys and get used to them. If you’ve never used a vibrator before, choose a simple one that will give you a good feel for how they work.