How To Make The Most Out Of Your Vibrator For More Powerful Orgasms
You are certainly missing out on a lot of orgasms and pleasure if you do not yet know how to use a vibrator, and I highly recommend that you learn how to use one as soon as possible. When it comes to masturbation as well as your everyday sexual life, using a vibrator is the ideal accessory to have. In point of fact, if you’ve never had an orgasm before, it has the potential to induce one in you and some women can only cum while they’re using a condom You are going to learn how to use a vibrator properly, along with which techniques are the most effective, by reading this article.
This guide to the vibrator is broken up into three sections (Section 3. is the most important)
- How to select the best vibrator for your needs.
- Taking the necessary steps to ensure you get the best possible experience.
- The specific methods that you can implement with your vibrator to induce orgasms that involve arching your back, curling your toes, and shouting.
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How To Determine Which Vibrator Is Best For You
Before you can learn how to use a vibrator, you need to select one, and when doing so, there are a few important considerations you need to keep in mind, including the following:
Power is the single most critical consideration you should make when purchasing a vibrator for personal use; you need to ensure that it has sufficient power. If you are having trouble orgasming during sex or masturbation and need a lot of intense stimulation to push yourself over the edge, then it is quite probable that you will require a more powerful vibrator. If this describes your situation, then you should look into upgrading your device.
Because of this, you will need to steer clear of the inexpensive options, as they do not typically provide a significant amount of stimulation. Instead, you should stick with the medium- to high-end vibrators, which include brands such as Lelo, WeVibe, the Hitachi Magic Wand, Sybian, and well-made “rabbit” style vibrators.
Modes and Settings: Before you go out and drop your hard-earned cash on a fresh new vibe, there is one more significant aspect to think about, and that is the modes and settings it possesses. You can alter the level of vibrational stimulation provided by several different types of vibrators. This is amazing since it means you can adjust it to obtain exactly the type of stimulation you desire, which is exactly what I was looking for.
You may also programme some vibrators to provide cycles of increasing or decreasing intensity. This means that the vibrator will automatically adjust how intense the vibrations are, so that you will experience pulses or waves of vibration repeatedly building and receding rather than a steady level of intensity. This is done so that you can have a more natural feeling from the vibrations.
The vast majority of women find that this provides a far higher level of pleasure in comparison to the same level of continuous power that is provided by vibrators that are not as well-made. In point of fact, one of the most significant issues with the majority of low-end vibrators is that there is no method to modify the strength if it is not at the desired level. Because of this, it is possible that it will turn out to be either too weak or too powerful, and there is nothing you can do to alter it.
Form — When it comes to using their vibrator, the shape of their vibrator is not something that a lot of women place a lot of importance on. This is especially relevant for those of you who are only interested in clitoral stimulation and using your vibrator on the exterior of your vagina, as both of these activities stimulate the external clitoral region. If you want penetration as well, then the design of the vibrator is obviously going to be vital as well.
You will always be able to choose the correct shape for your needs thanks to the fact that most stores sell a vast variety of shapes and sizes, ranging from vibrators that look like small capsules (bullets) to penis-shaped vibrators to smoother forms with bumps and curves in all of the proper locations.
When selecting a vibrator, the noise level should be the very last consideration you make. If you live in a home with other people, it is only normal that you would want to maintain your privacy. A disruptive and annoying vibrator is not going to assist you in accomplishing your goal! If you want a quiet vibrator, my recommendation is that you stay away from the cheaper models that are constructed with less care.
Getting Ready to Have the Most Fun Possible
After acquiring a quality vibrator, there are a few steps you can take before to engaging in sexual activity that will ensure you get the greatest amount of orgasmic pleasure possible.
The first and most critical step is to have an awareness of what stimulates your sexual desire and gets your blood pumping. This might include items like the following:
- Getting in a nice, hot bath first.
Spending some time with your preferred erotica and reading it. - Creating an atmosphere with sound, smell, and light in your room
- Engaging in some self-indulgent self-play. Helpful advice about
- masturbating is provided below.
- If that’s your thing, you can watch porn.
- Enjoying a fine wine.
In the end, you should follow your own best interests. As such, if you find something else that makes you as horny as hell but isn’t on this list, go ahead and do that. In this manual, you’ll learn not just how to improve your sex drive, but also how to make yourself aroused.
Knowing your body inside and out is another crucial tactic for maximising pleasure, as this will allow you to zero in on the precise triggers that will send you over the brink and into a state of unfathomable ecstasy. Check out my mind-blowing and comprehensive tutorial on making yourself orgasm if you currently struggle to attain orgasm and climax but want to learn how to make it very simple.
The 9 Most Powerful Vibrator Exercises
The easiest way to determine which of the following strategies is right for you is to try them out and see what happens.
1. Vibrator Foreplay
To begin, move the vibrator in a gentle gliding motion over the erogenous areas of your body that are the most sensitive. This includes areas such as your breasts and nipples, in addition to the interior of your thighs. Some people discover that their neck, lips, stomach, and even the inside of their elbows (really!) respond favourably to the vibrations. This is something that happens for some people.
When you feel yourself starting to get excited, shift your attention to your thighs and vagina, but hold off on putting the vibrator on your vagina for a little while longer. You should continue to tease yourself by lightly trailing your vibrator around it, dragging it over the edge of your labia, and running it over your clitoris until your body is begging for more direct touch.
2. Gentle Teasing
The next technique, known as Gentle Teasing, is extremely similar to the one that came before it. The main difference, however, is that this time you will focus more specifically on your vagina while also making very little touch with it.
To begin, position the point of your vibrator so that it is at the base of your vagina. Then, using slow, steady motions, work your way up toward your clit. Once you have reached the highest point of your vagina, which should be above your clit, begin slowly lowering it. While you are utilizing this strategy, your body will be begging for greater pressure and intensity, but you must resist the urge for the time being. Keep your touch as “feather-light” as possible for the longest amount of time.
3 Clitoral Focus
It’s finally time to put that vibrator to work on your clit! Place the pointed end of the vibrator over your clitoris, and then begin to apply pressure to it in a direct manner. You have a wide variety of options available to you here:
It is possible that you will find it more comfortable to insert the point of your vibrator into a particular side of your clit.
You could find that rubbing it back and forth on your clit is most comfortable.
It is up to you whether you want to go around your clit slowly or very quickly.
You might find it more enjoyable to continue gently tease yourself by providing the barest minimum of pressure.
Experimenting with a variety of different approaches and locating the portion of your clit that provides the most gratifying and pleasurable sensation when using your vibrator is essential. You’ll get some new ideas for using your vibrator on your clitoris after reading about these masturbation techniques that focus on your clit.
4. Clitoral Hood
Some women find that having direct contact on their clitoris is too intense and perhaps causes them to experience some pain. If you find that you fit into this category, there is no need for alarm because you are not the only one experiencing this problem, and there is an easy remedy…
You need to act as a buffer by utilizing the clitoral hood. This is the little flap of skin that covers your clitoris and keeps it clean and protected. Therefore, rather than putting your vibrating device on your clitoris, you should put it on your clitoral hood. In this manner, the vibrations will be less strong while yet maintaining their pleasurable qualities.
5. Coming In From Below
Due to the fact that you will be able to excite the entirety of the exterior of your vagina with this method, it has gained widespread popularity. You are going to need to take out your vibrator and press the length of it against your vagina. Your clit should be forced against the top of your vibrator, the length of your vibrator should be pressed against your vagina and labia, and the bottom of your vibrator should be at the lower portion of your vagina. This will ensure that your vibrator works effectively.
In this posture, you would easily be able to keep your vibrator in place if you clenched your legs together and gave yourself a good squeeze.
6. Cum Inside
While all of the preceding methods focused on the external aspects of your vagina, it is now time to consider the aspects that pertain to the inside aspects of your vagina. You will need a vibrator that is partly shaped like a penis and is able to easily enter your vagina in order to accomplish this.
Coat your vibrator with some lube, either the lube that naturally occurs in your body or some lube that you have purchased, and then slowly insert it into your vagina. Simply allowing your vibrator to rest within your vagina can be a very pleasurable experience; however, you will find that applying pressure to the most sensitive areas within your vagina, specifically your G Spot, Skene’s gland area, and your A Spot, which can cause orgasms, will provide you with a significantly higher level of pleasure.
Experiment with varying levels of pressure, the strength of the vibrations, and different regions within your vagina to determine what feels the most intense. Check out the Dildo Guide if you are using a penis-shaped vibrator since it will show you some wonderful techniques that you can also use to achieve earth-shattering, neighbor-waking orgasms. If you are using a penis-shaped vibrator, check out the Dildo Guide here.
7. Add Your Fingers To The Mix
Even when you are using a vibrator, you can still use your fingers if you want to. This is not a restriction imposed by the vibrator. In point of fact, doing so just brings to an increase in overall satisfaction. While simultaneously utilizing your vibrator to please your clitoris with the other hand, you can stimulate your G spot with your fingers on one hand. Discover your G Spot right here.
You may even alter the positions of your hands at this point and touch your clit with your fingers while pressing your vibrator into your G spot. This is an additional option.
Experimenting with different approaches to find which ones work best for you is essential, as I keep harping on like a broken record. It’s possible that you’ll find that you enjoy having pressure applied to your A Spot or that you’d rather rub your labia than your clit. This fingering yourself tutorial will provide you with many different examples of how to finger yourself so that you get the most enjoyment out of the experience.
8. Use Your Vibrator For Better Sex
Vibrators are frequently referred to as “marriage aids,” and it is a good idea to think of them in this capacity. The use of a vibrator during sexual activity can significantly enhance the pleasure experienced by both you and your partner .
If you are having trouble orgasming during sexual activity at the moment, utilizing a vibrator during penetration can be a big assist in getting you to that point. When you are in certain positions, such as the Missionary or the Coital Alignment Technique, using it on your clitoris can be very difficult and awkward. On the other hand, when you are in other positions, such as Doggy Style or Spooning, it is very easy.
During sexual activity, your partner can also take control of the vibrator and use it on you if you so desire.
Utilizing your vibrator on HIM is still another amusing option to consider. Once more, this is dependant on the situation that you are now in. You can use it on his balls, perineum (the patch of rough skin that is located between his testicles and anus), or even his ass if you are in a position that makes it easier for you to do so.
IMPORTANT: Some insecure guys believe that if you use a vibrator during sex, it’s because your partner is a bad lover or that you require something more. These men are wrong in both of these assumptions. This can be a very difficult situation, particularly if all you want to do is experiment with something new with him. If your partner reacts defensively to your idea or appears distressed, then you will need to reassure him that you merely want to try something new and that it is NOT him. Unfortunately, this is something that you will need to do.
9. When it comes to Blow Jobs and Hand Jobs
In addition to using your vibrator on your boyfriend while you are having sexual relations with him, you can also use it on him while you are giving him a blow job or a hand job. Here are a few concepts to consider:
Try running it over his shaft and the head of his penis softly and see how he reacts to it.
You can use it on his testicles while you are giving him oral sex (check out the Blow Job Guide here) or a hand job (check out the Hand Job Guide here) by trailing it over them and caressing them with it, or by holding it against them with your hand. This can be done while you are giving him oral sex (check out the Blow Job Guide here) or a hand job (check out the Hand Job Guide here).
Because your man’s perineum is extremely sensitive as well, you should try pressing your vibrator on there. Despite the fact that it is sensitive, you are able to apply a great deal of pressure, which makes it more delightful for him.
If your boyfriend takes pleasure in having someone play with his ass, then you shouldn’t be hesitant to do the same thing to his ass. You can either brush it all over the outside of him, gently press it inside of him, or just completely penetrate him with it. After you have finished using it on yourself, you should, without a doubt, clean it up before doing so again.
Warning
Vibrators are able to improve the quality of sex life for the majority of women, but they also have a potentially dangerous side effect that causes some women to abuse them.
Don’t worry; I’m not going to talk about being addicted to anything! It’s something that’s a little bit more understated.
